The power of family

Family forms the fabric of any society. This statement is profoundly true such that wherever someone is, it still holds. This sense is not just in humans but also among the animals, whether wild or tamed. For those animals that prey on others; they know how to hunt in packs (especially the lions). This apparently ensures that the predators are not harmed in their quest for food and/or survival. While those that are preyed upon, know how to graze in herds to aid each other. It is interesting that while they are together, they won't easily let go of each other. They always grapple and fight in one accord. Even the way they take care of their young ones is pretty spectacular! The mother animals don't allow anyone to tamper with their young ones; they will do the much they can to defend them. This gives the "children" a sense of security which adds to their trust in the "parents".

All these facts about the family, as depicted by the animals, apply to human beings. It is an amazing reality whenever the core of the family is enhanced by sticking together and closer by all means. It is in the family that someone feels they belong; this is where there is love and appreciation. A place where someone can express themselves without feeling that they are being judged or looked down upon. A place where there is equality and true sense of confidentiality. It is in a true family that one finds people who can listen and just listen some more. At times, there are those who simply offer a shoulder to lean on; whenever things and life's bustles and hustles get too intense.

In the light of the facts about the family, I believe it is one very paramount institution. It is actually a very critical place for anyone to belong; to participate in, to be shaped, to become somebody. It is in the family that someone gets to learn how to interact with people, whether of the opposite sex or the elderly, or the young. Some of the norms that we have had over time have been a result of varied efforts from family and friends who put aside every endeavor just to give the deserved attention to them.

Thus, the family predominantly remains the fountain of great lessons for a better society. The following indicate the power of the family:

1.  The place of genuine love: It is in the family that every person can receive love genuinely. Here, most people don't have to work for approval and love. The parents will love you nonetheless. They will definitely provide for your needs and will be there for you when you need them. 
2. The place of security: It is in the family that someone feels the sense of being safe. This doesn't just happen physically but also socially. In the family, one can interact freely and feel well connected. It is here, that the parents do their level best to protect their children. No one can interfere with a family member's welfare and the family doesn't respond!! That is why whether a child is a robber or not, they will always find solace in their family. 
3. The place of belonging: It is in the family that someone gets to feel at home. This is the place where there is no judgment and someone gets what they duly deserve or even more... When there is belonging, one gets to participate fully. They don't have to prove any point. Instead, they simply work as part and parcel of the family. 
4. The place of support: It is in the family that one gets to receive support in all facets of life. Whenever there is a problem, it is the family that someone runs to. Whether financially, emotionally, or even materially, one considers family the place they can freely go for help.